tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7864665678152266637.post2767435482194078933..comments2023-10-03T02:01:21.099-07:00Comments on love vanilla cupcakes.....: A personal story about closure.Beryldenehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06496816410507350519noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7864665678152266637.post-27758672014989095232008-10-03T13:05:00.000-07:002008-10-03T13:05:00.000-07:00Way to go, Beryldene - you did really well - getti...Way to go, Beryldene - you did really well - getting "rid" of all the anger, etc is the only way to find closure. Like you I often do not allow others to dictate my life in that I do not allow them into my daily life via my thoughts - I choose to rather move forward, mostly even without confrontation, and this works so well for me.<BR/><BR/>I have a favourite mantra - "nobody needs any help to shoot themselves in the foot - they can do it quite well on their own" - the wheel turns ...<BR/><BR/>Love, TracyTracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02489668889310378234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7864665678152266637.post-6120502955695486812008-09-28T06:09:00.000-07:002008-09-28T06:09:00.000-07:00Good for you gf, I certainly think the way he hand...Good for you gf, I certainly think the way he handled it was truly unprofessional. If they wanted to chase the snow, his wife and kids could have gone without him, i know your and my business ethics are obviously of a much higher standard, as we either would've said we couldn't make sunday, or alternatively stuck to our arrangement without making lame excuses. In these economic times, too many slip ups like that, and your business can face ruin. You can't buy advertising better than good word of mouth - unfortunately for him the opposite also applies...Tracy Schimperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14809137420642535743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7864665678152266637.post-21085921521842325782008-09-27T01:15:00.000-07:002008-09-27T01:15:00.000-07:00You are most certainly the better person. Sometim...You are most certainly the better person. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes we can deal with things like that, but I get upset when it affects my children as they don't always understand.<BR/><BR/>I have now started to let things go too and I must say it has been hard, but the feeling is oh, soo good!!<BR/><BR/>Believe me, the wheel certain does turn.<BR/><BR/>Keep wellMichelle Ramsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07939832205523424389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7864665678152266637.post-26253036029306144852008-09-26T09:20:00.000-07:002008-09-26T09:20:00.000-07:00well done my precious friend - oh what a strong po...well done my precious friend - oh what a strong powerfull woman you truly are - i grew from your experience - you ARE the better person - you have handled this correctly. so thats it hey - full stop - we all wont allow him ownership of our feelings - he has no right to affect our daily happiness.......case closed.The wheel does turn my friend ...and sometimes it even goes into a river and drowns or goes into fire and burns or or or goes into cow poo - or or ....ok maybe i should breathe and release, breathe and release.....aaaaah thats better.linda andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04044558846785024070noreply@blogger.com